Why Can’t I Seem To Find Love?
Who doesn't love love? We all need it. We all crave it. But do we all necessarily feel it? Not that we can believe everything we read on the internet, but I once read that 60% of people do not feel loved or feel worthy of love. That is insane. So, if love is a human necessity, what is preventing us from receiving or accepting it? It’s super cliché, but the honest truth is: it’s a reflection of how you love yourself.
Let me ask you something. How many of these statements are true for you?
I feel perfectly comfortable and happy in the clothes I’m wearing right now.
When I pass a mirror, I smile and typically love what I see.
When I make a mistake, my first thought is a word of encouragement rather than harsh criticism.
I can name at least two things I’m doing this weekend specifically to fill my own cup.
I can sit in a quiet room for ten minutes without a phone or a "to-do" list and feel at peace.
I feel comfortable saying "no" to things I don't want to do without offering a mountain of excuses.
I am deeply in tune with my emotions and understand the why behind them.
Can you confidently say that the majority of conflicts with your partner do not go in circles?
If the answer is "no" or "false" to more than two of these, there is a part of you inside desperately needing you to care for her like you would a small child. There’s a part that wants to be seen, heard, and understood by you. And once you take notice and give that part the attention it deserves—just wow. You become whole all on your own.
But why do we answer "no"? Why is that "yes" so hard to reach? Can Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) help with that? Absolutely.
During an RTT session, we bypass our logical, conscious mind and go straight to the subconscious. This is where we can directly ask why the answer to these questions was "no"—and even better, the subconscious will show you.
It could be something that seems silly and small to your logical adult mind. Maybe when you were five years old, you asked a kid if they wanted to be your friend and they said "no." Is it a big deal in your adult life now? Does it pop into your mind daily? Probably not. Yet, that five-year-old version of you did not understand that rejection and never got the chance to heal.
So here you are as a grown adult, not understanding why love isn’t finding you or why you keep rejecting it. Your subconscious is still trying to protect that five-year-old from the sting of that playground "no."
In our RTT session, we’ll heal that five-year-old part of you so that your current self can start answering an astonishing YES to every single one of those statements. Loving yourself takes time, patience, practice, and kindness.
Are you ready to heal that younger version of yourself and let love in?
Whatever has been keeping you from the happiness you deserve within, I got you.
